Re-Writing HERstory... Ms. B's Body Image Transformation

I met Ms. B years ago at a boudoir party I was hosting. Little did I know, B would become a dear friend who has since returned to the studio for 5 more powerful boudoir photography experiences- a result of her ongoing body image transformation. In one of her sessions, she participated in a model call where she allowed me to share her story with all of us. Little did I know, Ms. B was struggling deeply with her body image before her first mini session at that fateful boudoir party. In her own words:

"I have struggled with my self image for most of my life. I have always been the 'funny fat friend' so to speak. I decided I wanted to do something for myself to help see myself in a different light, and boudoir was the perfect outlet for me to do so. During the mini sessions I was able to see myself as sexy, I was able to see myself as beautiful and confident. I wanted to be part of this (model call) project because I want others to know the power of boudoir. It isn’t for anyone else but me and my confidence as been so much stronger since I started."

I asked B, after having some boudoir experiences with me already, how I could best showcase her body and personality in the upcoming photoshoot. This helps me provide more variety throughout galleries over time- highlighting different sides of my guest, playing with poses and expression...

"I honestly love my whole body exactly as I am now…that being said, I love to emphasize my legs (thicc thighs save lives baby), my booty..., and my boobs (because they are naturally emphasized on their own). I would love my playful silly side to be seen as well."

In anticipation for her session, I wanted to be aware of her comfort level. If a guest is especially nervous leading up to a session, I can provide extra support. But Ms. B was ready to go!

"I am honestly so excited for the shoot, I’m about to jump out of my skin I’m so excited! Now my first shoot (well mini shoot) I was a little nervous because I wasn’t 100% sure what to expect and was incredibly self conscious. I was so worried I was going to look or feel ridiculous, but I was made to feel so comfortable and so confident! (Thank you Ginny)"

I was also curious what prompted B to choose me for this session. After learning her story and the vulnerability of that moment, I knew this wasn't a decision that she made lightly. Here's what she shared with me:

"I actually called and talked to Ginny a couple years ago on the phone and I remember her telling me why she started photographing boudoir and why she loves it. Her passion for her why came through so strongly, I knew when I decided to do a shoot, it was going to be with her. I have done three mini sessions so far and I can honestly say working with someone so passionate and caring as Ginny, has made this the best decision I’ve made."

I wanted to give Ms. B a chance to share a final thought- her hopes for you after seeing her transformation-

"I want other women to look at my pictures and honestly see themselves in my place. I want them to be able to picture themselves feeling beautiful and sexy and confident just for them! I want to show them that every body type is beautiful and deserves love. As a plus sized girl (and have been most of my life) I’ve always been told that I should be ashamed of how I look, but the most liberating thing you can do is boudoir to gain a new perspective of who you are."

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